My Marriage Handbook

Creating Your Happily Ever After

About Us

A fulfilling, joyful, and resilient marriage does not happen by chance. It is created intentionally, nurtured consistently, and strengthened over time. Marriage is one of life’s most important journeys. In many cultures, it is seen as a natural rite of passage, yet few of us are truly equipped for its realities. From fairy tales to films and popular culture, we are often led to believe that love alone is enough to pave the way to our ‘happily ever after’. However, when challenges arise, many couples feel unprepared and unsure of how to navigate them. My Marriage Handbook was created to bridge this gap by providing practical guidance, emotional insight, and intentional support for relationships.

Pre-Marital Relationship Coaching

In many areas of life, we invest time, training, and developing skills to become successful in our careers, business ventures, education, and sports. Yet when it comes to one of the most important institutions of all—marriage—few of us receive any formal preparation. Many commit their time, finances, emotions, and energy to their relationships, often without the knowledge or skills needed to navigate the realities of married life. It is no surprise that so many couples struggle.

On this platform, we believe that premarital relationship coaching is an essential foundation for a lasting marriage. Before committing to ‘forever’, couples deserve the opportunity to gain clarity, develop emotional intelligence, and build the skills needed to sustain a strong and enduring partnership. Premarital relationship coaching can help you avoid unnecessary heartache and save significant emotional and financial costs in the future. In many countries, nearly half of marriages end in divorce. Don’t let yours become part of that statistic. Invest not only in your wedding day, but in the marriage that follows.

Couples Facing Marital Challenges

We also support individuals and couples seeking to restore their marriage after conflict, separation, or disconnection. Inspired by the philosophy behind Restore Your Broken Marriage and Create Your Happily Ever After, our work is rooted in the belief that transformation is possible when even one partner chooses growth and intentional change. Whether you want to reconnect, rebuild trust, set relationship goals, or gain clarity about your future, we offer compassionate, practical guidance to help you move forward happily—together as a couple and sometimes as a healed and empowered individual, depending on the circumstances. Don’t leave your marriage to chance; take action today to gain the skills needed to rewrite the brilliant love story that you deserve.

Our Mission

Our mission is to empower individuals and couples to build intentional, emotionally intelligent, and deeply fulfilling relationships. Through our books, programmes, and coaching, we provide the mindset development tools and strategies needed to navigate every season of love. We invite you to build a marriage that is not only strong, but extraordinary.

Work With Us

Books & Resources: Practical tools and inspiration for every stage of your relationship.
Courses: Coaching Programmes & Workshops where you will learn essential skills in communication, intimacy, and resilience.
One-to-One Coaching: Personalised guidance tailored to your unique needs.

For private coaching enquiries, please email info@mymarriagehandbook.com with a brief outline of your needs.

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Events & Retreats

Transformational experiences in supportive and inspiring settings

For all enquiries, please email info@mymarriagehandbook.com

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You Too Can Save Your Marriage

Don’t allow your marriage to drift or crumble. Your relationship is far too important to leave to chance. Take intentional action today and invest in your future together. Our programme, Restore Your Broken Marriage and Create Your Happily Ever After, is designed to help you rebuild trust, repair weak areas, and strengthen the bond between you and your partner. You will gain practical tools, insight, and guidance to help you reconnect and create the love and happiness you both deserve.

If you are unable to attend the programme, you can begin your journey with the book of the same name: Restore Your Broken Marriage and Create Your Happily Ever After. It is filled with practical advice, reflection exercises, and proven strategies to help you move towards the best version of your relationship.

For those looking to reignite passion and deepen intimacy, 15 Ways to Spice Up Your Love Life offers fun, simple, and effective ideas to help you maintain excitement and connection in your marriage. If you would like more personalised support, one-to-one coaching is also available. Please email info@mymarriagehandbook.com to learn more.

“Happily ever after is not a fairy tale, it's a choice”

We’re All Learning on the Job; Don’t Beat Yourself Up

In many cultures, we are raised to aspire to love, partnership, and family. From a young age, we are surrounded by messages that celebrate romance and the promise of a ‘happily ever after’. Fairy tales, music, films, and even advertising shape our expectations, often suggesting that love alone is enough to sustain a relationship. Yet when challenges arise, many of us realise we were never taught how to build and nurture a lasting marriage.

In every other area of life, we invest time in learning, developing skills, and gaining practical experience. Marriage should be no different. Creating a strong, fulfilling partnership requires intention, education, and continuous growth. The more we equip ourselves with the right tools and mindset, the more likely we are to build the relationship we truly desire.

Rediscover Happiness Today

Rediscovering happiness in marriage is an intimate and intentional journey. Over time, routines, responsibilities, and external pressures can dull the joy that first brought two people together. Yet lasting happiness is not about perfection or constant bliss; it is about continuous growth, understanding, and renewal. It involves reconnecting through shared laughter, rediscovering common interests, and creating space for honest and open communication. As couples embrace change and evolve together, they learn to celebrate both their shared experiences and the unique qualities that make each partner extraordinary. This journey of rediscovery strengthens the foundation of love and companionship, allowing happiness to deepen and mature with time.

About Funmi Okonweze

Funmi Okonweze’s journey as a relationship coach began after navigating a challenging season in her own marriage. She immersed herself in research and personal development, gaining valuable knowledge and mindset shifts that transformed her relationship. Today, she uses her lived experience and professional insight to guide couples who feel disconnected, stuck, or on the verge of walking away.

She set up My Marriage Handbook after realising that for many couples in intimate relationships, there are usually no ‘go-to’ guidelines or manuals on how to navigate the complexities of marriage; people often end up making things up as they go along, hoping for the best. Funmi is passionate about helping couples restore connection, rebuild trust, and create fulfilling marriages. She wants this platform to be a one-stop shop offering practical tools, guidance, and advice on how to create the best version of our relationships.

Funmi is the author of Restore Your Broken Marriage and Create Your Happily Ever Afterand 15 Ways to Spice Up Your Love Life. She is a twice ‘Editor’s Pick’ and a TEDx speaker, exploring traditional and modern relationships in the digital age. Funmi regularly contributes to the conversation on social media, podcasts, and blogs. She is also a Chartered Accountant living in London with her husband and their two children.